Spring Unwinding
Hello lovely Yoga Mamas,
Spring is the season where everything begins to unwind. If winter was a time of dormancy, spring is for unboxing that stored energy and setting it free.
In yoga, there's a beautiful principle called sthira and sukham - often translated as steadiness and ease.
It's a reminder that the body functions best when support and softness exist together. Too much effort can create tension. Too much softness can leave us feeling unstable. The sweet spot lies somewhere in between.
This is especially true during conception, pregnancy, and postpartum, when the body is constantly adapting and reorganising.
Last month we explored activation through the pelvic kinetic chain, turning on the muscles that help create healthy pelvic support. This month, we're exploring the equally important counterpart: release.
Creating space. Softening tension. Unwinding the places that work harder than they need to.
Many of us instinctively respond to discomfort by gripping tighter. We hold our shoulders when we're overwhelmed. We clench our glutes when our pelvis feels unstable. We brace our bellies, jaws, and hips in an attempt to create support.
But true stability doesn't come from tension everywhere. It comes from the right muscles doing their job at the right time â leaving the rest of the body free to do the same.
Because when hamstrings, hip flexors, chest muscles, or glutes are carrying more than their share, they can pull the whole chain out of balance. Sometimes that shows up as pelvic pain, sometimes as back tension, tight shoulders or jaw. Even butt gripping - especially in late pregnancy, and somewhat counterintuitively, this overactivation actually leads to that âpostpartum flat buttâ appearance. Or maybe your symptoms are more subtle - a sense that some movements simply feels harder than they should, or that you canât quite âspeak toâ some areas of the body to request that they activate.
May I ask you to consider this: Where am I working harder than I need to?
Sometimes that single question reveals exactly where the body is asking for help. And though it is tempting to assume these areas need more strength, sometimes they actually needâŚrelease.
This month's practices offer a gentle opportunity to unwind those patterns, creating more ease, more space, and often, surprisingly, more support for TTC, pregnancy, and postnatal recovery.
And if you enjoy these, I really hope youâll enjoy whatâs in store next month â as previously alluded to, Iâll run a pre-release viewing of a postpartum core and pelvic stability rebuild practice. Itâs aimed at those 2 months or more postpartum, and itâs filled with important info for all postpartum women. And since postpartum is forever, itâll still be relevant whether youâre 2 or 20 years postpartum â so be sure to check it out.
My newsletter subscribers will be the only ones with opportunity to see it before it goes to Insight Timer - as a premium subscriber edition, meaning itâll be paid viewing only.
P.S If youâre a pregnant Mama, stay tuned (for a bit longer) as I have something in mind for you and your pelvis too!
đ¸ Pose of the Month
Pre-conception (TTC): Supta Padangusthasana â see it on YouTube

Lie on your back and extend one leg upward, using a strap, scarf, or dressingâgown tie around the arch of the foot.
Keep the opposite leg long or bent, whichever feels most supportive.
Let the hamstring lengthen gradually, without pulling or forcing.
Breathe into the back body and soften the shoulders. Repeat on the other side.
Benefits
- Creates spaciousness in the pelvic bowl (emotionally and physically supportive for TTC)
- Encourages circulation and warmth through the pelvis
- Softens hip flexors and lowâback tension, lengthens hamstrings
- Calms the nervous system and supports parasympathetic (ârest and reproduceâ) tone
- Helps balance the kinetic chain before conception
Contraindications
- Acute hamstring strain
- Sciatic irritation (bend knee or reduce angle â for those with medically diagnosed narrowing of spine causing sciatica, ask your doctor before attempting)
- Lowâback pain that worsens with leg extension
Prenatal: Pyramid with Chair â see it on YouTube

Stand with one foot forward and one 2-4 foot-lengths back. Feet are around hip width apart, or wider if needed for balance or comfort.
Soften the front knee, hinge at the hips and lean forward to wherever is comfortable. Keep the two halves of the pelvis as square as you can.
Inhale to expand the whole torso, exhale and allow lengthening through the spine. Keep the belly soft and spacious, leaving room for Bump.
Option for resting hands or forearms on blocks or a chair for support.
Repeat on the other side.
Benefits
- Lengthens hamstrings + calves to reduce pregnancy back tension
- Creates space in the lower back and sacrum
- Supports pelvic stability by reducing posteriorâchain tightness
- Safe and accessible for late pregnancy
- Encourages grounding and breath expansion
- Helps counterbalance the forwardâshifted centre of gravity
Contraindications
- Symptomatic SPD (shorten and widen stance or reduce depth of forward fold)
- Dizziness or low blood pressure (rise slowly)
- Hamstring pain (bend knees more)
Postnatal: Doorway Pec + Hip Flexor Combo â see it on YouTube

Place one forearm and hand on a doorframe with the elbow at a right angle, the same height as the shoulder (think âcactusâ shape arm). Step the opposite leg forward, until you feel a pectoral stretch. Land in a gentle staggered stance.
Let the chest open softly as the front of the hip lengthens.
Keep ribs relaxed and breath steady, and be sure to repeat on the other side.
Option to do this while holding baby, also great on your âescapeâ after putting them in the cot for a nap!
Benefits
- Releases pecs tightened by feeding, carrying, pram pushing
- Frees a âstuckâ rib cage â improves deep TA + pelvic floor coordination
- Softens hip flexors that contribute to pelvic tilt and lowâback tension
- Supports upperâbody posture and breath mechanics
- Easy to do without a mat, safe from 1-day post-partum â perfect for weaving into daily life
- Helps rebalance the kinetic chain from top to bottom
Contraindications
- Symptomatic SPD (shorten and widen stance or reduce depth of forward fold)
- Dizziness or low blood pressure (rise slowly)
- Hip flexor pain or ongoing SPD symptoms (shorten stance)
â ď¸ Trigger Warning â Mention of Baby and Infant Loss Awareness Month
Please skip ahead if this isnât suitable reading for you right now. I just couldnât let October pass without mentioning that it is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. I want to acknowledge every parent carrying the grief of losing a baby.
As someone who experienced four consecutive pregnancy losses, I understand some of the fear, sorrow, and loneliness that can accompany this journey. I also know the immense courage it takes to keep moving forward, one day at a time.
If you have been struggling, coping with a loss, please know that your grief is valid, your baby matters, and you do not have to walk this path alone. Or if someone you know needs to hear that, please pass the message along.
Earlier this year I published a collection of resources to support those navigating pregnancy loss, healing, future pregnancies after loss, and finding hope again - no matter the path you embark on next. These are completely free, and have a dedicated page on the website, so Mamas in need can easily find it all, without needing to view the remainder of the websiteâs content. Access them anytime at: www.bemamayoga.com.au/loss_support.
Sending love and light to every parent whose heart has been forever changed. May we hold each other with tenderness as we remember our babies.
đŹ Iâd love to hear from you
If one of these poses helps you feel a little more open, a little more spacious, or simply more you this month, reply and let me know. Your reflections help shape this community and guide the practices I create for you.
And if youâre craving longer, guided practices that weave breath, comfort, strength, and emotional steadiness together, my online courses â Preconception Peace, Prenatal Presence, and Postnatal Poise â are always here for you. If somethingâs been holding you back from starting one, please reply and let me know what it is â if I can help, I will.
Or if you havenât yet tried the free mini-course, it gives a good introduction to my teaching style.
đż Until next time
May your breath soften your body, your body create space for strength, and your strength remind you of the Mama you are becoming.
With love, â Emma
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